Sluts Are People Too

slut · noun \’slət\ · a promiscuous woman

Slutty girls used to make me really mad.  They were hot, they knew it, and all they had to do was flash a little cleavage and they got whatever they wanted.  They made me look ugly and prudish by comparison, and I feared that no man would want to “settle” for me when they were constantly seeing their scantily clad fantasies walk by.  I was jealous and wished I could look like them, yet I loathed their unfair superficial ways on principle.

All of this changed when I became friends with a few of these girls and saw what being a slut really entailed.  I realized that my jealousy and resentment were stupidly pointless and unfounded.  Maybe they got whatever they wanted in an immediate sense, but it came with a huge price – human respect.  Sluts might get what they want in a short-term, physical sense, but in the process, they are dehumanized and hardly anyone truly respects them.

  • Women don’t respect sluts because they are jealous and/or fear that they will steal their boyfriends away.  They also fear that the presence of slutty women gives men impossible high expectations for how women should look and perform sexually.  Don’t be jealous that most women (including other sluts) hate sluts.
  • Men don’t respect sluts because they don’t have to respect them in order to get what they want.  They see them more as toys instead of people.  They have no idea that the girl they slept with one night and then never called again is now crying over a tub of ice cream, wondering why she wasn’t good enough; it doesn’t enter their mind because toys don’t have feelings.  Don’t be jealous that emotionally immature and selfish men use and abuse sluts.
  • Sluts don’t respect themselves.  They give themselves away because they don’t realize that they’re worth so much more.  And with women hating them and men using them, why would think highly of themselves?  They stake so much of their value on how they look that a pimple or cowlick can crush their self-esteem into a million tiny pieces.  Don’t be jealous of fragile self-esteem and self-loathing.

I know, I know, this isn’t always the case.  Before you accuse me of generalizing, let me confess that one of my friends is a self-proclaimed “slut” who can sleep around without falling apart.  She is incredibly self-assured, independent, and able to be emotionally detached in her sexual relationships.  Not all sluts are suffer equally, some girls can successfully pull off the slut lifestyle.  If that’s you, congratulations –slut away!  Based on a rudimentary survey of my social circle, however, self-respecting sluts are incredibly rare.  In fact, my aforementioned friend is the only woman I’ve met who can live like that.  All my other slutty friends are insecure wrecks.

I always wonder why they choose to do this to themselves.  I watch my friends cry and vent about how stupid boys are and wonder why they don’t just say “no” when boys ask them to go home with them.  A lot of times, they believe this is just how relationships are supposed to be, especially when they see the same thing happening all around them to their fellow sluts and all the magazines talk about it as if it’s totally normal.  For many of them, it’s repeated naïveté: they genuinely mistake male lust for love, so when they get dumped, their response is to try to make themselves hotter in hopes that it will prevent it from happening again.  Their self-worth and value hinge on their ability to constantly attract men.

But, you might ask, isn’t it their fault that they are slutty?  Aren’t they responsible for forfeiting their own right to respect?  Yes, in some ways they are.  But in other ways, they’re victims of their culture, and they’re paying a hefty price for it.  The idea that looks are of utmost importance is such an obvious lie to me because I grew up being told I was ugly and had to get my self-worth from other sources, but it’s not necessarily obvious to girls who grew up constantly being told how pretty they are, with that as their main value. Hollywood tells us that women are worthless if they’re not hot, and the hotness barometer is popular male opinion.  These girls desire to be affirmed by male opinion more than they desire respect.  It’s no wonder that these girls can’t see a way out.  This certainly doesn’t warrant jealousy.

So, no matter how much you want to strangle the next hot blonde with giant boobs who snags your crush (girls) or tap that thang with no strings attached (boys), remember that sluts are people too and should be treated accordingly.

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17 responses

  1. Very Nice, SuperVirgin! You are getting more and more hilarious as time goes by. This is all so true. You know, the thing that I have found is that guys who use sluts, can’t keep up with the real deal (like me, or you) when it hits them in the face. We have too much on the ball, are going a million miles an hour with all the cool stuff we do, and don’t much have time to deal with the panting male dog in our faces.
    The warrior princes though, those are precious few, and stand out from the pack pretty quick. Keep it up, dear!

    victoriasvisits

    August 24, 2011 at 2:00 pm

    • Anonymous

      What are you talking about ? your ugly as fuck, no one is going to waste their time trying to get into your granny pants anyway’s, who the fuck do you think you are you delusional cunt LOL?

      June 11, 2014 at 7:14 am

      • Anonymous

        Please kill yourself.

        December 25, 2015 at 2:15 pm

  2. NS

    So true. We generalize stuff so much.. We shouldn’t do that!

    August 25, 2011 at 10:26 am

  3. “…they don’t realize that they’re worth so much more. And with women hating them and men using them, why would think highly of themselves?” ~ This is an excellent point! So often, many women feel worthless, not just because of men using them, but also because women hate them and put them down.

    I’m always so saddened to see ANY woman feel worthless because it always ends ugly: she may respond by shutting herself up in her room for the majority of her life (loneliness) or she may sleep with many men, trying to gain a false sense of self-worth (lack of self-respect).

    You’re a very wise girl, you know that? I’m glad that you have such a good head on your shoulders. No matter what anyone has ever told you in your life, you are beautiful…there’s nothing more beautiful than wisdom and self-respect (no matter what hot blondes with big boobs might say). 🙂

    August 25, 2011 at 10:34 am

  4. Very touchy article.. And the fact that I ‘respect and make love to’ sluts made me enjoy it even more ! 🙂

    August 25, 2011 at 12:21 pm

  5. As a guy who loves reading your view….I gotta tell you that many girls like playing the slut…some of them want nothing more than a hook-up…I personally think it’s sad and twisted…i don’t mind a girl who makes me wait for sex…I actually respect her for having the courage to stand up to the process and furthermore, I know more than enough girls who need to get some moral character back in their system. We all hear them want a gentleman, but in the end, sluts get the worst of the worst type of man…

    You get what you pay for… in her case, she gives it for free or for very little…she should expect just that in return…

    BTW, this was a wonderful post…

    T.

    August 25, 2011 at 4:58 pm

    • Being a slut is nothing to be proud of..

      December 28, 2014 at 6:46 am

  6. I love this!! I’m reposting! lol

    However I don’t think that just because a girl can “detach” her feelings from sex means it doesn’t effect her. She’s numb for a reason! Actually the girl who can have sex only with a guy and have no regret afterward and turn off feelings worries me more than the one who has an emotional reaction. It tells me that she is really hiding those feelings deep inside her, and she’s doing that for a reason! Sometimes the strongest people are really the ones that are dying the most inside!

    September 4, 2011 at 7:23 am

  7. Have you ever heard the song “Love Her” by Seether? It totally fits your post.

    September 9, 2011 at 11:38 am

    • This song literally makes me so sad.. It kinda reminds me of my sister when her mum kicked her out if the house, she had no money so she had to go out prostituting to get money… She HATED doing it, but there was nothing else that she could do and I felt so sorry for her, she would come home and cry because doing that made her feel like she was worthless, and was scared of what strangers might do to her. I’m just so glad she doesn’t have to do that stuff anymore… Btw very touching song…

      December 28, 2014 at 6:54 am

  8. GaggingRT @MFBvsMIKE: Natural POV or Amateur

    September 28, 2012 at 10:19 am

  9. Lauren

    Honestly who cares if someone sleeps around it’s not up to us to judge just because someone sleeps around doesnt mean they’re a bad person and that’s all that counts

    September 1, 2013 at 10:09 am

  10. This makes a lot of sense, and I find it pretty sad that girls do this to themselves because of their self-esteem issues and the fact that they have no respect for themselves. Most men just see them as dumb, and use them and objectify them. Some sluts do it because they are poor and need money, and others do it because they are addicted to drugs. For some reason, sluts would always make me so angry, and it wasn’t because I was jealous, I just hate the things they do.

    December 28, 2014 at 6:08 am

  11. But why do they do these things if it makes them feel unhappy and worthless?

    December 28, 2014 at 6:58 am

    • Anonymous

      dumb cunt

      May 20, 2016 at 9:20 pm

  12. Anonymous

    Nasty cheap sluts disgust me. Have some self respect and close ur legs!!! Ull soon realize rhat when ur looks wear off (they will its fact all women fall apart with age) u aint shit! Dirty whores need to get AIDS and fuckin die. Then no more slut problem. Let all the sluts kill each other!!!!!!

    May 20, 2016 at 9:23 pm

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